Supplies You Can Provide to Fire Victims

The following "kits" were suggested by victims of the Cedar Fire. If you know about a family that has lost their home, here are the suggested kits you can put together to bring to them. In addition, at the bottom of this post are "10 Ways To Respond To A Fire Victim".

Office in a Box: Plastic file carrier box with handle including the following inside: book of stamps, personal address/phone book, 3-5 pens, 15-20 file folders w/ tabs, blank labels for files, 2 small notepads, box of standard envelopes, 2 spiral binders, scotch tape dispenser,small stapler w/ staples, rubber bands, paper clips,accordion file to place files in, basic calculator.

Essential Tools: Some type of tool box or carrier w/ the following inside: sturdy hammer, adjustable pliers, adjustable wrench, flat head screwdriver, Phillips screwdriver, picture hanging materials, measuring tape, small level, flashlight with batteries.

10 Ways To Respond To A Fire Victim

1. Let them talk, while you listen (you don't have to "fix" it)
2. Give a hug and say "I'm sorry"
3. Accept their reactions. These may include anger, denial, frustration, numbness, joking, sadness, tears. These will change throughout the next few years.
4. Avoid talking about yourself and your experiences.
5. Ask what they need; clothes company, errands, childcare, place to live, kitchen supplies, tools, meals..
6. Watch for what they need; remember that they may not be able to think of what they need.
7. Offer your time to go with them on errands, shopping, etc.
8. Commit for the long run as they will continue to have needs.
9. Anonymously drop off food, supplies, cashier's check.
10. Tell them you are praying for them and consistently do it!

Copyright2007 Edie Davis, MS, MFT